' laura twenty-one on 140608 Having found the elements of joy, she is contented and blessed for all that she has in her life. (:
Unconditional love, let me tell you something; I love you just the same if not a little more.
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About Me
If, I ever found
A wishing carpet lying around,
I'd stand upon it and I'd say:
"Take me to his side, right away!"
And then we'd travel very far
To where the magic countries are
That you and I will never see
And choose the loveliest gifts for you, from me.
Love the girl in your heart, not in your mind. If you base your relationship on feelings, it will fail you for there are ups & downs in feelings. Girls are there to be loved, not toyed around.
Love her for who she is. Don't even think about changing any bit about her. 6 billion people in this world & 6 billion different personalities. She's special and she will stay that way. You change any part of her, you'll change her forever. Don't substitute her for anyone else, they are just unique in their own ways.
Love whole-heartedly. She sacrificed alot for you so you'd better really treasure her. She could have just got up and date a so-much-more-dashing guy in town but she chose you instead, all because of love. So love her guys, not play with her. Don't just get the girl to beg you to stay or whatsoever. If you're with her, love her. Don't cause a strain in the relationship; you'll end up loving each other out of pity or charity. That's not repecting love at all. Respect love the way it is & everything will be the best it can be. Don't expect perfection from her.
She's the only one in the world & she's done the best she could. Like another girl while you're in a relationship ? Then I think it's time you remain single for a while. Don't go around breaking girls' hearts; it's the most tragic thing to do.
Tell the truth, never hide anything from her. If you want her to tell you everything, do the same. Don't go calling other girls "honey" or "darling", how would it feel if your girl calls other guys the same way ? Be faithful; enough is enough.
Socialize only when you're single. You socialize & flirt around to get the girl of your dreams. Get it over when she's already yours, don't ask for more. It never kills to be romantic. Think, be flexible. Getting that diamond ring isn't the only gift for her. Be realistic; she's human & she lives life just like you. Something sweet & simple always get the job done. Money doesn't exist between couples; it's the love.
Never promise her that you'll love her forever because your "forever" might end the next day. Love her as if each day is the last. Sweet talks only apply for singles, not for attached guys. Do that & you'll really break your girl's heart. It isn't good being too well-known either; it'll give her a sense of insecurity. Remember, INSECURITY.
Promise her & make sure you never break it. Swear to her & make sure you keep it. Pledge your love to her & her alone. Loving her is giving her your heart to break it but trusting her not to. Instead, she'll cherish it and protect it. That's love. Give her your heart, your life, your everything. lay down your life & prepare to die for her when the need arises. But stay strong & live through another day; she can never live without you.
Never, ever walk out of her life. She won't just cry her heart out & carry on living as per normal; she'd die. It's her heart that you've broken, how would you ever know how she feels ?
Winning a girl's heart isn't the final victory. Don't leave her once you've won her love. Love her all the way till the end of time; love her till marriage; love her till old age; love her till death. If you can love her till the end of time, you've earned the honor & respect, for you've truly loved her.
She chose you because she believes that you can fulfil your promise. Win her heart & love her over. Remember, the girl isn't a trophy for display; she's someone to love, not to show off to your friends. Stay humble yet proud that she's the one for you. Respect her for the way she is, never despise her & never mistreat her, never even think of toying with her.
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I'm healing. Slowly but surely. But at random times, I still do miss you. But I've made the decision so I've gotta stand by it. [ Jan 11: On a sidenote, I've figured lots of things out today while I was standing in the showers. And after figuring those things out, I am feeling more at peace with myself alr. (: Conclusion: there's going to be no more us but only you and I; she and him. It's going to be better for the both of us, you will see, boy. (: Cos for now, what we are after are different things and while it's still at that stage, it gets too tiring for me, for you. You may put me aside for I'm sure we'll meet again as long as we are under the same sun as said by my twinny. (: ]
--------------- A short update about my day yesterday. Went out for breakfast in the morning with my family. Came home, washed up and wenta town with Oliver. Hung around Plaza Singapura while waiting for our friends. First time he treated me to sth though he ate up most of it. Lols.
Went down to Somerset to meet the girl. But she was very late and by the time she came, I had finished walking around Specialist Center and Robinsons. Wenta Sushi Tei for lunch and guess how much we spent ?! $10. Hahahaha. The first plate of unagi was sucha turn off that we didn't have any appetite after that. Walked over to Far East to shop around but there were too many people. ):
Cabbed down to Bugis to shop around. SHOP SHOP SHOP ! But we bought nothing. Both of us were feelin'g fuggin' irritated I tell you. Met up with Oliver for a short while and all 3 of us went to Icon, the new fashion mall opposite Parco. WAHLAU ! 6 floors but only one bloody lift. AND THEN ! I bought a Bathing Apes cap.. For ... Guess how much ? 59 buckaroos. -.-" Heartpain ah !
Then Oliver left to meet his friends again so me and the girl continued with our mission of "die die must buy something today". So we walked the whole of Bugis Junction and Bugis Village. And what did we come out with ? NOTHING.
So we walked to Raffles City. Still, nothing. ): So we went to Citylink. And then, NOTHING. Not our day maybe. Sigh. So, we decided to take a short break at Thai Express. SHORT break was intended actually, but it ended up as a long break. Hahaha. By the time we sat down at TE, both of us were with hoarse throats and nearly croaking. Been yakking away the entire day you see. So much catching ups to do.
Then, still not wanting to give up on our mission, we went to Marina Square. About to die alr, I tell you. Then we walked into Charles & Keith and saw this heels that was pretty sweet. Then, because of our "die die must buy something today" and our "I going to die liao", we decided to both purchase the heels. Hahaha. $18.90 is still aiight I guess.
And then, since we accomplished our mission, we walked over to Esplanade to sit and continue talking. I was feeling so mean that I wanted to call Sang Hyun and make fun of him ! Hahahah. I even had my lil convo composed in my head ! (: "Hello Sang ah ! We are having sooooo much fun now leh. -band music at the back- Too bad you are not here ! WAHAHAHHS! -hang up on him before he can say anything-." Yeah ! But too bad, none of us kept his number. LOLs. Oh yeah, I just found out that his gf is my senior in primary skl.
Yeah. So we just sat there and talked about everything. From life, to relationships, to this, to that. It was really.. Everything. I love talking to her. I seriously do. Then we left at 9pm. She went home while I went to Chinatown to find my family. And yah, I bloody got scolded like F for the cap. I bet everyone will scream at me if they see what it looks like for 59 bucks. It's damn plain actually. But it's imported from Japan and there's only 6 in the world. Yah. You think I very stupid to believe these ? But I bought from my cousin's shop. He won't bluff me. And like so paiseh if never buy anything from him since he just open shop. So bobian. Buy lo. He wanted to give me FOC actually, but.. His partner there, so not that nice. His partner quite cute leh ! Either a Taiwanese or a Hong Konger. I think it's the latter but he doesn't speak with a weird slang. Hmm.
